Get out of bed and into the waking world/
Moving on/
Got a plan for the morning/
Moving on/
Forget the plan and
Move on!
Seems like getting in a rut is all about doing the same bloody thing, the same way, each and every day.
It is change that is needed and then we just move on.
Moving on is about change and moving on is what life does.
When we sit in a chair watching a glowing box we are in a rut/
Time to
move on

change is constant.

A couple argued. They argued over money..But that really wasn't it. They are argued about going somewhere one of them didn't want to go to. They argued about each other's driving, how the other shopped, and how they talked in social functions. They argued but it was about none of those things.
They argued. It was a dance gone bad.
How do we dance. The general agreement is one leads; the other follows.
We make an agreement to work as a team. So what is the problem?
When ask ourselves why are we argue what is our answer?
Do we argue because we disagree? Or is it something else like control?
Why argue? Why not just say "NO". Don't argue unless it is more important to be "right".
Saying "NO" doesn't entitle anyone to any other explanation...unless..of course...you wish to argue. AND that is NO fun.

A couple planned a vacation. Each time one of them suggested a place the other said "NO" until they finally both said "YES"...they agreed and then Had a WONDERFUL TIME! together. lots of Love there!