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When I check out a new blogger posting, it seems the right thing to do is welcome them if they are a first timer on Blogstream or simply make a supportive comment.
As happens there are some weird folks that refuse to allow comment.
The question that comes to mind is "What possible reason for a balanced mind to refuse comment?" (come on, the blog is a community that promotes and nurtures exchange of experiences, ideas, observations, feelings, thoughts and so on.0 It is what humans do in a culture, in a group, in social occasions..kinda of like the very old days of going to the Grange hall for pot lucks, catching up local news, renewing and maintaining friendships. Exchange of information, it is human, it is balanced and it generally yields what we put into it.
So when someone refuses comment, I am suspect of their motives as being from being unbalanced, distorted, fearful, narrow minded and in some sort of emotional pain. Just the time when what that person needs is to reach out,,and what better place to start than the blogstream.
My policy is simply not read the posting of one who rejects their own humanity. Why waste time on a talker that does not listen when there are so many great folks on the blogstream full of life, opinions, and so on that enriches our lives and our experience.
Happy Sunday Blogging!
Posted by capananda at 10:21 AM - 10 Comments   Add a Comment  
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I have to confess being the social being I am I bypass those who will not allow 'comments at this time'. I am not sure if my reasons are as eloquent or elegant as yours. At any rate, I do enjoy interacting with folks along the way

ron
 
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by AZRON (PM , CC ) on Sunday May 25, 2008 @ 10:32 AM




It is who we are and how we maintain our humanity. Sharing, much the same of breaking bread. Thanks for the Reply  
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by capananda (PM , CC ) on Sunday May 25, 2008 @ 1:52 PM




Amen to that Cap! To me they either think what they have to say is "the gospel" according to them; they like to hear themselves talk; or they do have another motive in mind, your right, and instability does run through one's mind.  
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by Bella (PM , CC ) on Sunday May 25, 2008 @ 2:24 PM




'breaking bread' is almost a lost art in our culture - which may explain our violence which grows out of unfamiliarity...

stay safe

ron
 
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by AZRON (PM , CC ) on Sunday May 25, 2008 @ 2:38 PM




I agree with you 100%! Great post, capananda!

Hoping you're having a safe and happy Memorial Day Weekend!

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by Celtic Mist (PM , CC ) on Sunday May 25, 2008 @ 3:17 PM




That was a great post, I'm still kind of new to this blog thing,
but you make a good point. I myself love comments.
 
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by Allison's Kitchen (PM , CC ) on Wednesday May 28, 2008 @ 12:14 PM




capananda:

Yes, I find it very disappointing to read a blog and then, when I try to add a comment, I discover that the author is not accepting comments. I will not bookmark that site.
 
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by Whit's Whittlings (PM , CC ) on Wednesday May 28, 2008 @ 12:29 PM




Haven't run across any of the "no comments" blogs yet, but I have already been guilty of reading some and moving on without leaving a comment.  
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by lonewolfchronicles (PM , CC ) on Wednesday May 28, 2008 @ 12:54 PM




Great post, cap!  
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by Secret (PM , CC ) on Wednesday June 4, 2008 @ 10:58 AM




I don't know if I question their motives - maybe they set up the profile wrong (you know that double negative of "no" to allow comments). Or maybe they just want to get their words out, and not necessarily anyone else's input or criticism.

But I do agree with you on return visits - I never go back (at least not on purpose)

Hope you are have a sublime Monday
 
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by chandabear (PM , CC ) on Monday June 9, 2008 @ 2:06 PM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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